E232 Tania Halva

Oh hello my name is Aziz and I'm the son of a divorce mother she's really my superhero and that's why it's important for me to support women to share their unique and have their personalities perspectives and emotions about this world in these difficult times in human history, we need to bring the people of the world together, and when we hear the voices of women when we listen to real life of women from other countries, we connect our cultures without differences or stereotypes, and we get inspired by their stories to live a better life that's what this podcast is all about Out my guess today is Tanya Hulvey on Banya is a finger and vocal mentor from Ukraine living in Dubai. She loves to sing. She loves writing songs to dance to read books and to learn about human psychology Tanya how are you today? Thank you for inviting me. I am good I tried to be OK and Call bury some of the good I'm honored and privileged. I feel very lucky to have you here and I'm really curious to know much much more about you as a person and to share your life your perspective so I'll begin with this nice first question which I'll often ask to help you relax and not feel worried, which is if your friends and the people who know your best and love you most could describe your personality. What would they say about you? Oh very good questions I think they will say what I am very active person and my things in my head move more fast than my physical body. I always make goals for myself, so better to know what I want from this life but but also, I think so many people will say what I am a very deep person. Who is Sandeep remind her how to say. I hope it's OK and I like to be alone so so many person who close to me in my life they always know what first I need to have my space my time for myself to be alone to feel comfortable for that and after when I have my time I can share my energy Waze everybody. Oh wow, I have so many questions about this almost 10 questions on my mind that I'm curious about and I'll begin with just one which is this what motivates you to go after the goals you want and not feel anxious, feel afraid or feel that energy that keeps you in your comfort zone. I don't know exactly but I think it's because of my life when I was very young Karen little girl. I had a quality of this life and I always remember how I was thinking about I want more I want to have these are these are want to have go to food yes, work for field. Nice and love it because my example in my life was very hard. My mother was working very hard work always and I sold is some example like a dance in the dance and now I always want to move most forward. I love that I can really relate and I can understand and it is my experience that people who have had a difficult life they become more deep and interesting than any person who had a very very easy life and thought to ask you what you described. Some people will say that. Is the definition of ambition and of course he spoke before about always having goals which is ambition is this ambition or is this like away? What are you looked at your life before and you're like I refuse this, and I will be stubborn and I will make the good life, so is it more stubbornness or is it more ambition I think Martin stent first one is what air assume it's possible a second one it's about responsibility of what no one cannot make you sad bad or some shit like this Harrison what you have around you people work creation is always going from your responsibility Eris and when you understand it, you already know what you can drive your life you know like this you are a boss of your life. You are god of your life and you can do ever seen just I think me to make more questions for you or for yourself what do you like? What do you feel now? Why are you feel it like this like this? You can find so many questions for yourself to know what you can do better for yourself and move on. Thank you so much. I love that answer. I agree with that 100% at the same time you spoke about how you are someone who likes your time alone you like to recharge your energy so I understand maybe you're an introvert how does that work one? Sometimes you need to perform in public in front of many many people do you imagine yourself you are alone in your shower singing or do you imagine there is a different town yard that is the performer and then the Tonya who is the introvert or how can you as an introvert also have That big extroverted ability that's why my choice was in them to be a vocal teacher now I must perform because I'm over in Dubai because of the war in my country. How do you know of course