Episode Transcript
Hello, my name is Aziz and I'm the son of a divorce mother.
She is really my superhero.
That's why it's important for me to support women, to share their uniqueness, their personalities,
perspectives and emotions about this world.
In these difficult times in human history, we need to bring the people of the world together.
And when we hear the voices of women, when we listen to real lives of women from other countries,
we connect our cultures without differences or stereotypes, and we get inspired by their stories to live,
a better life.
That's what this podcast is all about.
My guest today is Raihona Ismoi Lova.
Raihona is from Takshend, Uzbekistan.
And she is a student at Vistula University interested in fashion.
Raihona, how are you today?
Oh, hi, all these.
You gave really nice speech today, I'm perfect.
And you?
I'm happy, honored and lucky to speak to you today, I'm feeling very positive and curious
about you.
So I'll begin with this nice first question.
If you're friends and the people who know you best and love you most, could describe
your personality, what would they say about you?
They can answer it without thinking, they will say that I'm careless because every
people around me, they know that I don't care to anything.
I don't pay attention to the problems of people and I'm avoiding always problems.
Why is that?
Is it because you love positivity and you want to focus on that?
Or what would you say to describe the reason why you are avoiding problems, etc?
Oh, okay.
It's because of my childhood, in my childhood I hadn't really good life, I would say.
And now I'm living alone, I'm living myself, so I'm trying to make everything positive.
I don't like being sad, and I know that if I will become sad, I cannot be normal like everyone.
If I will become upset, it will be really out of say.
It will be so depressed, so stressful for me, and it's not easy to live like this.
That's why I'm always avoiding to become upset or to become angry, so it's good.
And I like it.
Thank you.
And now that you're living on your own, how do you spend your day in order to feel positive?
Do you go for a lot of walks?
Do you go workout?
Do you watch movies?
Do you talk and walk with friends?
Or what is your favorite activity to feel positive and happy?
Oh yes, I do.
All of them.
So in the morning I wake up and I clean my room, preparing for me breakfast.
And then I'm going university.
I'm studying after university.
I go work.
I work part time.
And it finishes in always in 5 p.m.
I go home.
And again, I'm cooking something.
And after this, I'm going gym.
It makes me really powerful.
I really like training a lot.
And after this, after training,
I like to reward myself as a sounder or as a swimming.
Like, I go to the pool and I swing.
And by this, my day is finished,
finishless.
And in the evening,
I can go with my friends for a walking
or to rest around,
just meeting with girls.
And sometimes we do,
in my home,
moving night.
And yes,
it all makes me happy.
Thank you.
And you're a girl from Uzbekistan.
What is the difference?
How is the culture and personality of a girl from Uzbekistan
compared to any other place in Central Asia
or other women from all over the world?
Oh, so actually,
why I came here because in my country
where I was born, I couldn't feel the whole atmosphere.
I didn't feel myself like it is my hometown
or it was so weird to live there
and I decided to move somewhere else
because people there,
they were like, how to say they're not the kind with their own citizens
but they are too kind to free nurse
and I didn't like it.
That's why I decided just to move
because I couldn't change people around me.
All people is impossible to change all of them
and just I want to change myself and it worked.
So people here are so kind with me.
Finally, I found my place.
I found my place and I'm really glad from it.
Thank you.
And you're someone very interested in fashion.
What do you love about fashion?
And what are your dreams and goals when it comes to fashion?
Oh, I love everything in fashion, everything you feature in fashion.
Exactly.
I like the closest fashion, not house, not houses design or buildings.
Yeah?
Exactly.
So, I read the book of Kokoshana, and after this, I realized that I belong to fashion as well.
So now I'm following a lot of models, a lot of designers.
And they really inspire me.
My future, when it comes to my future plans, I'm gonna build my own fashion house in London.
And if it will work good, I will open branches in Italy, France, and of course in Uzbekistan.
Because I want to people know that the girl from Uzbekistan was able to make so many things.
And I want to be my mom and my family, so proud of me.
So, yes, the question, how is my dream and plan?
That sounds absolutely wonderful.
And why specifically in Britain, England, London specifically are not Paris or Milano?
Are you very interested in the British culture?
Maybe a lot of Harry Potter or why?
Oh, I don't know.
Since my childhood, I don't know why.
London always calls me, calls me, to live there, to do something there.
And now I'm also planning to transfer my studies to London.
I hope it will be good.
And there is nothing specific that I found in London.
Just from my childhood, I like London.
I could love America because everyone lost America.
They are always trying to live there to work there to travel in America.
But London, I can say that London is the sister of America,
but a little bit gentle and softer.
There is no exact answer or reason about my love to London.
Thank you.
And you said that you feel empowered when you go to the gym.
Can you share a bit more about that?
Is it because you feel your body powerful?
Is it because you feel the adrenaline and dopamine rush?
Or what does it mean for you to feel empowered?
Is it to be ambitious after the gym?
Or to feel strong?
Or how is it that experience for you?
Actually after gym, I don't feel myself strong.
And I'm not trying to be strong girl.
With pain, when it's pain after the pain, there is a feeling that makes you really
how to say heavy or peaceful.
Every time when I run a lot or I'm doing pillates, my body is the, how to say it.
I feel myself that my bones are really flexible.
My skin is so like, you know, like a jelly.
I don't know how to explain it.
And having sound and paths after it makes you feel like a pure butterfly or pure bird.
Thank you. That sounds very poetic.
And I understand you're very interested in makeup and offer makeup artist services.
How is that related to fashion and why do you love makeup?
How does it make you feel?
Oh, actually, I consider that makeup is a part of fashion.
And yes, I don't know why, but I'm really good at it.
I even wasn't studying for it or I don't have any diploma from making from makeup.
Because I think I like it and that's why it's really, I can do it really good.
So doing a lot of makeup is it's bad, but sometimes it makes clear your concerts.
Like not hers, girls' concerts and it shows better making visible, more visible girls' face.
So this is art for me.
I love art and I love creating something new in my own face or in girls' face.
I really enjoy it from painting eyes, lashes, eyebrows, choosing lipsticks for different types of lip or skin mixing it.
Yes, this is real art and it makes me feeling awesome.
Thank you very, very much.
At the same time, I imagine you're a girl that loves to travel.
What is interesting for you about travel?
And does it help you learn about yourself, about other countries?
Or what do you so good about traveling?
Oh, yes, I love traveling and why I love it?
Because I'm searching for new things from other countries.
I'm searching that I never saw things that I never saw since my birth.
So I love meeting people from over the world.
And yes, I'm doing it and I have a lot of friends from several countries cities.
And I like exploring the culture of cities, of people.
And I believe in every country, in every city people are different.
And I like knowing their character, their behavior, their attitude to new people.
And yes, I just enjoy from it.
I'm just always trying to be thankful that I have this opportunity to travel
to enjoy just from the moment.
For sure, thank you so much.
And at the same time, you are someone who is studying at university.
What is the topic or subject that you're studying?
And why did you choose it?
Oh, actually, yes.
I studied at university, but I really don't like studying.
There is a reason.
Can I say it or no?
I don't know.
I study to read them and re-create change.
I choose it because as you know, I love traveling
and I want to become professional, traveler
and open some extra hobby,
or I can say extra company,
which is related to tourism.
And I have a plan for the future.
I want to open my own brand,
which will be called Raquel.
And I will open hotel with name Raquel.
And there will be a part of tourism.
And I will need the help of the risen sphere.
So, press the round, which will be called Raquel.
So, shopping, malls, AS and so on.
I love your ambition.
At the same time, you said you grew up in a difficult situation.
So, how were you able to stay ambitious and positive?
Even if you grew up in difficulty,
and why do you believe that ambition is great
and that all your big dreams are good
and can happen so other women can be inspired
to have similar ambition?
Yes, I wasn't left from my childhood,
but I will not say that my childhood was full of troubles.
Because I think I never saw real problems
when it comes to my childhood.
I wasn't living with my mom
and my mom, she was also divorced
and she just left me with my grandma and grandfather.
So there was two roots with me
and I really didn't like their attitude.
I was always annoying
but I was trying to leave this house
and to begin something new in somewhere else
like a new place
apart from my relatives
and I did it.
Everything I was planning
or I was dreaming about
it was coming through always
and if someone wants something by heart
they will always pray for it
and ask from the God
that it will be
when it will be real
in your real life
that's why
I was never stopping to
trying and to remain
so I think
till this time
I'm achieving my dreams and plans
so next I also hope
that everything will be
will become true and real
but every woman
see in my actions
they will see my results
and these results
will make them
as well
will improve their self confidence
I love that
and I want to specifically
speak about that
for you
what is your advice
to women who maybe are a bit shy
or maybe they have goals
but they worry
what other people will think
and don't follow them
so that they can have the confidence
to change their life
and follow all their dreams
I think
I have really good faces for women
we shouldn't think a lot
imagine that you are in ocean
and the flow is going to right north
not to the left
and we have to follow this flow
we shouldn't try to swim to right
or swim to the left
or back
we shouldn't try
we shouldn't do it
we should follow all women
they should follow the flow of the ocean
and we will see what will
like where you will bring
to which island
this flow will bring us
so I believe in this island
there will be a lot of
a magic
animal places, plants
that will make it feel
as happy and enjoy
so just follow the flow of the life
just don't make anything complicated
and no one cannot
can something in women
if they will never allow it
if they don't want it
because they will not allow
so no one can change anything in women
I agree 1000 million percent
and to ask you since you are a woman who loves to travel
what would be a country or a city in this world
where you will feel
very much relaxed and happy and at home
is it maybe London specifically
so that you are near
to your fashion design
kind of culture
or you spoke about America
you love to be in New York or in Hollywood
or in Dubai or Paris
or what is a place that is your dream to live
that you feel
even if you had the opportunity
you'll be so happy
I think it will not be London
I'm planning this to be my career
in London
before you leave me
I'm still searching
I'm still searching a place
but I imagine
I don't know in which city I can find this place
but I want a place
with ocean, with nature
with sun
there is never winter
there is no winter
every time only summer
and additionally
with a lot of crowded people
the place with a lot of people
with movement, action
where I can see actions
every day
yes this is my ideal place
or a living
but I don't know
I can find exactly
and how it calls
maybe it will be
well this or how I
I love that
Maldives or how I
sounds absolutely great
at the same time
is some of your fashion inspiration
from warm weather
do you feel you want to create
beach vibe
or how will it be?
I can do it
I can do this
as well
some mixture of
and the sound
and clouds
rain
I can
illustrate in my closest
something connected related to galaxy
something with stars
moon
sky
and of course
normal visual
dresses
be beautiful for daily
because
if I will think
logically people
will not
wear my closest
if it will be
so extra
extra
cosmic
something related to nature
it's
this kind of idea is good for
shows
good for
and
how to say
just for projects
some project
but not for daily
wearing
so yes
I will do it in two ways
that is absolutely great
thank you so much
that I have for sharing your dreams
your personality
your life
I feel
and thank you for participating in this podcast
thank you too
as it was so
awesome
fantastic to talk with you
to answer your questions
I really enjoyed from this conversation
for a long time
no one wasn't asking for me
this meaningful questions
thank you so much
thank you for giving this opportunity
opportunity
to speak
to recognize our
selves
you are welcome